i found nights hard with DD, she fed more at night than in the day. but i also found that she weaned relitivly easily. but i think she was a few months older than your ds. id give her a cup of milk and sit with her/rock/pat etc till she was asleep. then after a while milk became water...not worth waking up for apparently so she stopped waking so much. i explained ''boobies are for the day time'' and told her she was a big girl. and then eventually she stopped waking altogether, although that didnt come till she was about 2 yrs old. but ithink she was ready. good luck. and wear a tight, boob covering top, dd was pretty sneaky and would be cuddling and then suddenly find a nipple and it was all over