Night weaning is pretty simple, but not very pleasant. Feed her more before bed, both solids and bf - then when she wakes in the night give her a drink of water and a cuddle and walk around for a while and somehow get her to go back to sleep without bf. Much better if you are not the one doing this, as the smell will make her want it more.
This might be an easter holiday plan - for a few nights at least you will get even less sleep than you currently do!
that sounds like a great plan, if DH was able to help at night. I used to try and wake him for help but he seriously is like zombie - and a bad tempered one at that. we are away at easter with the IL's so maybe MIL will help me out...

to be the bearer of bad news i doubt that by weaning or night weaning will change your nocturnal bub. you have only been back for a short period of time so she is getting used to the only "quality" time with you is at night. so until she adjusts to seeing you from 4 ish til bed time she may wake to be sure mum is still around and to have some extra comfort.

do you co sleep? i found when my DD was going through this that I/she slept better when she slept with me and had free access as i would go to sleep as soon as she was attached.
I thought that might be the case, yep co-slept with her last night and I got so much more sleep. We co-slept with DD1 at about the same age as well cause she was the same.

No advice, just
Thanks for the hugs, hopefully i get more sleep tonight, I might co-sleep again