I found that I had plenty of support and offers to help...
but with sleep deprivation and huge stress - before and after the birth of my child - I just never produced enough milk. I had plenty of help in hospital. I had 4 MCHN come to my home. I spent an entire day at a lactation centre. The help is there... but so is the pressure!!!
I found the pressure to HAVE to breastfeed even more stressful...
After my child was losing large amounts of weight consistently (for weeks) - I was more stressed.
Although formula was reluctantly suggested before I left hospital (because my son was suffering so much)... I wish that there had been more support right from the start to top up with formula and continue with breastfeeding. But it seemed everyone was anti-formula until it became a desperate situation.
I saw another mother absolutely beside herself because her daughter was constantly crying from difficulties with breastfeeding. I somehow managed to keep myself together in comparision. But I am not surprised by the prevalence of PND when the pressure to breastfeed is so high. I understand it's a great thing... and I don't knock it at all. I am going to give it a 100% go with my 2nd child. And I did everything I possibly could with my 1st. Even the lactation centre that I visited said I should stick with formula.
I think the pressure to breastfeed from everyone is the biggest detterent. You are nearly made to feel like a 'bad mother' if you don't b/f... which only adds to more pressure.
EDIT: I did not vote as I felt none of the options were relevant to me. I felt the PRESSURE to have to breastfeed caused stress and anxiety which added to the milk supply problems




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