Sounds like a "growth spurt" or "wonder week" - one of those times when all they want to do is feed and grizzle and not sleep - I think we are just coming out of one here.

So in answer to your question - formula prob won't make a difference! I try to keep telling myself "this too shall pass" (and whine on BB for some support and advice )

Also, maybe you could express and leave your DD home with your DH for a few hours to make him realise what you are dealing with!!!