I think I would. Of course you never know until you're in the situation though. I would let a trusted and well known family member or friend give my baby EBM in a bottle or cup, but not actually BF him. BFing him, to me is for me only, it's something that makes ME his mum. Strange maybe....
I would use a milk bank too. The milk and donor would have to pass stringent testing before being used so it would be safe. It's got to be better than formula! Especially for sick or premmi bubs.