In the meantime, how about you wear a balaclava during feeds? Or one of those leather gimp masks would do the job...
Haha! I'm not sure he would want to feed from me ever again if I wore either of them!!

I just tried the sharp NO! and he started screaming!! Then I felt really sad He didn't do it for a while, then started again. I kept moving his hand to stroke my chest and say "gentle"
I hope he gets the hint soon. I also stopped the reactions.

I find it really hard to clip his nails, I try to do while he is asleep but he wakes up, otherwise he keeps grabbing the clippers.