Big hugs snacks, my son went through a period of Breast refusal around 9-10 mths, but not every feed so I'm not sure if this is useful, he would throw himself back and try to push against my chest every time I would sit for a feed, it was like he didn't want to have to stay still. To distract him I would go for a walk around the house or in the garden with him, until I had a let down and he was settled. I was probably being manipulated by him but at the time I was willing to try anything to keep our BF going. after a while things settled down and he stuck to a BF pattern of 3-4 feeds in 24hrs and did this until around 18 mnths. GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR BF YOU ARE DOING A REALLY EXCELLENT JOB.