Hi hun,

I believe I had dairy intollerant children too. I never had them diagnosed from a doc, it was all based on trial and error from my part. My DD was never fully bf, and she was aboe to stomach dairy based formulas, but when it came to putting her onto dairy, she got terrible recurrant ear infections. We cut out dairy and she was fine. With DS he was fully bf and for about 7mths I didn't have dairy at all because it upset his little tum so much. He would be really windy and get a sore tummy (pulling leg up and screaming alot) many a sleepless night was had until I figured out what was causing it. He is 2 1/2 now and while he can have some dairy, alot will give him the runs. He drinks alot of milk so he has soy, though can stomach a tub of yogurt a day and a little cheese, though he doesn't like it much. I was also intollerant to dairy as a bub and had soy formula and milk until I was about 3ish. Even now if I have a lot I get tummy and wind pains for a day or so.

As for your weight loss, are you eating a high kj diet? So full fat foods, things high in healthy fats, like nuts seeds, avocado...things high in kj. I don't know too much about it, but it might be a good idea to go to a dietitian/nutritionist to help with a diet plan. You will need to be healthy to make milk for your bub and have energy for yourself!