Jeeze Dusty, go easy on yourself! I fed my three exactly the same way you did. I didn't want to drain one all the way then risk her filling up and having a boob explode an hour later. I feed from each boob for the same length of time. I stuck a hairclip on the side she already fed from in case I forgot.

My BB's got lumpy/scary looking too, so I massaged them in a shower a little.

Keep doing what you are doing and let your boobs work out how much they need to produce.xoxoxo