Thanks for all the advice girls. We have been dummyless almost 2 days now! I'll admit there have been moments where i've nearly caved, but I've held strong. She is still screaming before she attaches, but once she is on, she has a good feed.

MantaRay - I would have to wake her to get an extra feed in. I am currently demand feeding as she is a big girl (5.6kg) so am letting her set the pace.

Emma - I know exactly how you feel! Hope things are getting better for you

Jennifer - DD will only sleep in the sling if I am walking out and about, she wont just around the house. Atm, during the day I have to rock her to sleep. I am quite worried that she will get used to this though. I have tried to put her down in the cot 3 times today awake with no dummy, but she only screams at me, so then i rock her.

Marcellus - good to know it can take some time, and we're not alone!

There is a breast feeding drop in centre near me, so I am going to go to that tomorrow to see what the LC thinks is going on. I just really want to get this sorted, for both our sakes.

Thanks again everyone, much appreciated xo