Hi Anita
I have had the same thing these past days- nipple thrush and pain. Baby doesn't have the white on her tongue but I had her checked by a GP wo said everyone has the bacteria of thrush but it only becomes thrush when it muliplies out of control. So baby may have it orally but u can't see it and she passes it to you. It is noticable on thenipples as pain, a bright pink colour on the nipples (that 's normally not there), a ring around the nipples and shinyness (sp??) on the nipple. I used Neocare from the chemist which is acidophilus in a rice powder base that u mix with breastmilk, apply to the nipple and let baby suck off. It is gluten free, colour free, chemical free etc etc and is very safe and effective. A LC from the ABA put me onto it. It may need to be ordered. Another natural treatment is Babybiotics but I haven't tried it- from the health food shop.