thanks so much for the update mummaB, sounds like you're having a bit of a rough time. big hugs to you

can i ask a couple of questions, just cos i think this situation is one i might be facing soon too

was your toddler sleeping in your bed before?
how has he reacted to being moved to his own room?
is the newborn in your bed now?

i'm sorry about the silent reflux, so pleased though that you have a supportive dh. makes a world of difference. i know what you mean about foxtel, we have that here too and i love it! gets me through many long boring nights on the couch. lol