Babe, if your moving to where i think your moving, its a very, very young family orientated area......dont expect to make best friends in 6 months or anything, but getting yourself out there with swimming lessons, mums groups etc your bound to make some connections...and dont forget when DS starts school ( know, seems a zillion miles away,but really, it isnt) you will meet mums there, all scared and anxious like you....and you will just click with some....promise...