I would be inclined to want to move. But I wouldn't just up and do it. Rather I would have my partner start some serious job hunting in the area you wish to move to - and try and secure a new job before giving up the old one.

The other option is looking into starting up your own community where you live. put some flyers out there and try and see if there is anyone else in your situation who also feels like they would like support or are willing to help support others.