You can always seek a second opinion from another care provider, a dr or a independent midwife if you don't want surgery .

Ask questions about whether the baby will be with you in recovery and whether skin to skin we be an option.

Ask what stitching technique will be used, you don't want staples, and there is a surer stitching method - but I can't remember what it's called.

Waiting until labour starts is the best way to ensure that your baby's lungs are mature enough to breathe on their own.

I'm sure there's more but I'm in a hurry ... sorry! And good luck xxx