Hi Sarah. I haven't had a c-section yet - I will be in about 4 or 5 weeks. And I totally understand your anxiety! I had a spinal with my DD (vaginal birth) and it was all over very quickly. The longest part seemed to be the anethestist getting everything ready, and they may be all ready to go before you arrive with an elective c-section. I was having some pretty serious contractions at the time and I managed to keep still so I'm sure a bit of crying will be fine.

Good luck! And I'd love to hear how it all goes for you

Great thread - so many pearls of wisdom ladies