What an awful nurse! Just what you don't need, somebody who is judgement and rude and unhelpful.
If you get somebody like that when in hospy again, you can ask for them not to speak to you like that (that it's really not helpful) or ask for another nurse/midwife to look after you. I did that with my first labour which was induced and I couldn't bear the thought of the male Dr doing another internal, given he had massive man hands. He was lovely, but I just really needed a female Dr who wasn't going to really hurt me again. They were fine to swap Dr's for me. If you don't ask, you'll never know!