Thanks ladies. It's frustrating how widely varying the advice is that people receive!

Vin you must remember that I've still got a sleepy newborn and a helpful DP at home full time...even then the days evaporate.... and I'm sure in another month I'll be in your shoes.

Actually thought, I'd like to have a bath as read somewhere it is a nice way for c/section mum to bond with newborn, soak in the tub with them.