Kelly, I had trouble with Hayleigh fitting through my pelvis and not to mention that she was caught up in the cord 3 times anyway, the Ob did not think she was going fit through naturally and she started going into distress, so it was a pretty traumatic event for me, as it is for anyone i know, but this time i would rather just have the c-section electively so i can actually enjoy this one rather than being so scared i was going to wake up and something had happened to her as i had everyone rushing around me like mad people not really telling me what was going on.

Belle, i would love to see this baby born as i did not see Hayleigh, that's why im so confused...actually more scared of what to do and i sort of feel i like i will be cheating Hayleigh a bit as i did not see her born and will be seeing this one, if that makes any sense, but from everyone's advice i will be definatley giving the epi/spinal alot of consideration. thanks heaps!!