Ive had 4 and a tubual reversal ......the ob told me I could have another 2 but we both decided due to having bad pg's and nearly losing DS3 at birth that enough was enough. I still yearn for another baby...but I know that ive reached my limit. I dont think your being selfish at all....if you have enough love in your heart to share and a se tof warm arms for loads of cuddles then go for it

'I will say though...it does take its toll out on your body. I have no feeling in my tummy any more, its loop sided and because im overweight I have an 'apron' that will get damp quiet quickly beneith and smell if I dont take care.