I go right off when people tell me i took the easy way out... Not only was is the hardest, most painful thing i have ever gone through (all i got after surgery was panadeine forte and voltarin) but i couldnt givebirth naturally, Anneliese's heart rate was dropping each time i had a contraction (to 80bpm) so labour would have killed her, and waiting any longer for a c/s would have killed her. Its up to us how we have our babies, just like its up to us how we parents them!