Hi Kirsty. Ive had one emergency forceps delivery, one emergency c section and 2 scheduled c sections. The tugging you mentioned is very noticeable but not that uncomfortable. I was fully aware of what was going on and able to breastfeed after about 40mins after bubs being born..after the initial first contact. I had a epidural and unfortunately have had bad experiences with them but I wont harp on that ....my midwives were aware of that at the time with Sammy so were helpful in trying to alleviate my concerns. Me...if I had my choices again would never had scheduled an elective c section for Olivia. At the time I thought it would be the best option after 2 quite traumatic birth interventions. I can so understand your concerns and its wonderful you are trying to see both sides and make the right decision for you. Goodluck with whatever you decide

Jo