You know ... I might get what she is saying. I had two. First one under GA and second a spinal and to be honest the first one is getting a bit blurry Now it may be that she remembers more from the last one, I do.

I can still remember my first c/s, but not nearly as clearly as the second one. I know what happend afterwards, but it's foggy ... so I truely believe that with time, I might just forget it.

I also think that although a birth is and awsome and empowering experience ... living trumps it. You (well I) tend to concentrate less on the birth (all dd's premmie/hossie dramas) while you are living life, learning and loving your kids. Does that even makes sense!!!