Sassy, I am so sorry to hear about your pop. to you and your family.

I had a similar issue when I was preg with Tehya. My mum's best friend was terminally ill with cancer. She actually died the day Tehya was born. We called the palative care unit to let her know that she'd been born and Jane past away that afternoon. It was like she held out for her.

Anyway, from what I do know you would be hard pressed to find an Ob who is worth his weight to do a c section for no apparent reason. I mean, medically there is nothing wrong with either you or your baby. Believe me when I say when you are grieving it is far easier to have your baby in your belly then on the outside needing your constant care and attention. Late last year we lost my DP's Pop to cancer. I was preg with Abbey at the time. And yes, while it was stressfull it was far better to have her safely and snug in my body.

I guess you have to ask yourself this. How would you feel if you brang your baby out into the world early, and something went wrong. Not trying to be harsh, just realistic. Also by having the c section you are damaging your uterus, this damage is permanent and effects any future pregnancies you may have.

I wish you all the very best hun. What will be, will be. Trust that no matter when your baby is born your pop wil see him/her. Whether it's from Earth or Heaven your baby will have an angel looking over it.