i have alot of stuff going on at the moment and i have been so stressed. My pop has cancer adn has been given 3 months to live but he has been going down hill fast so we thinkin only a few weeks.

So i was thinkin of having an elective c/s so there is a chance of pop seeing the baby or if he has passed i will be very emotional and i dont want the baby geting stressed.

ummmmm so wat happens with an elective c/s? can u always get it when u want it or only in certain cases?
when u have a elect c/s when do u get it near ur due date or like 2 weeks b4?
If i asked for one in the next few weeks can i back out?