It may come over as judgemental, but it's actually only factual evidenced based reasoning. I don't assume that everyone is the same as me at all. Quite obviously I can see that none of you are like me at all.

It's worrying however that unless we all say, yes this is ok, whatever you all like on this forum you are seen as judgemental or unreasonable. All anyone wants to hear is yes that's a great option for you and your baby, yes we understand what you've done yes it's ok to make these choices. In in reality most people don't actually think this at all. Only others who are making the same choices. If everyone reads the facts and then still would put themselves and their baby at risk ( 4 times more risk than normal birth) then I think there is every reason to question why that is and what is happening in society to fail these women.
Lisa Barrett