hi all,

just updating this post because i am now definately having the c/section. OB understood and agreed it would just be too much considering my history.

i still havent told more than my mum and SIL though, and although it is happening in 5 days (OMG!!!) i still havent decided what i will tell people. i think i will just say that the Dr, and i both agreed that it was best in my case because of an existing medical condition. i figure that will cover about 80% of people who will not ask any more. then for the others who insist on prying further, i will simply say 'it is personal and i would rather not go into it'.....and for anyone who pries further i will just say 'get stuffed' (just joking :-s ) no, to those people i will just say, i dont want to talk about it....i think that is fair.

but again, thanks to everyone here who helped me to feel like i wasnt a failure to make this decision, i really appreciate the support from here..