Since my first ob appt I've been booked in for my cs. Originally it was for 39 weeks, now because my dates got bought forward, it is 39+4.

As its now turned out, due to my mums work commitments, we have no-one to look after dd on the day of and the day after my scheduled cs. I'm so stressed but then hubby tonight suggested why not ask my ob if we can move it, either a couple days earlier or later.
But I feel like I'm saying 'oh that date is not convenient to have our baby sorry'!
Did you have any say in your 'preferred' date??