Thanks Marydean for that info, its very helpful actually and Ill definately look into it.

And I certainly am NOT belittling anything or anyone Trillion. Just for your information, I actually clearly am traumatised from the births I have seen, otherwise I wouldnt be so adamant to avoid it, dont you think? I am certainly not just "too posh to push" as some of you may think. I actually cant bear the thought of a VD BECAUSE of what Ive experienced. I genuinely feel bad for the women who have had traumatic VBs because Ive nursed them in the wards so Ive seen what they go through. My decision is well-informed and I really do feel a c/s is the only option for ME. Please dont belittle MY choices.

Im just here asking for info of how to go about getting whats best for me, not to offend anyone. Im just as freaked out by all this as everyone else. I have no family support, or friends here, and just need info.