I know exactly how you feel Linda.Firstly let me say that I (and most women who've had a c/s)wanted with all my heart to have a natural birth and its even more gutting when someone comments to me that I didn't do it properly/had it easy cause I had a c/s.Secondly I went through 23 hours of labour before having a c/s, its like giving birth twice cause your so sore from contractions then the c/s itself. My story and yours is all to familar unfortunetly and it really ticks me off these people who feel the need to make us feel unworthy as mothers.

Bug hugs to you Linda.............................