Hi again Soul,
Just wanted to make another comment about the 2nd csection. For my first appointment I was asked if I wanted a cesarean or if I wanted to try VBAC, I didn't want to decide that quickly and the doc and the midwife said throughout the whole pregnancy that I could decide at any time and also change my mind pretty much up to the last minute, but that because I had already had a csection, I could automatically elect to have a second. I was also a public patient at a public hospital. I think that the decision is totally all yours! Good Luck!