I honestly just don't want to attempt a VBAC anymore. DH is furious that I've changed my mind about how to deliver the baby.
Yes, I would be in hospital a bit longer, but as people keep reminding me I don't know how to deal with a newborn.. It's better to stay as long as I can so I figure it out. Alot of people, especially around my hometown, are "once a c/s, always a c/s" type of people
I bounced back very fast after my last c/s and was off all pain medication after 42 hours.
Sometimes it's just better to go with what you know, rather than go blindly into the unknown.
Sorry to hear about your DH's reaction, perhaps he needs time to absorb the change? I don't think you need to defend your choice to anyone, just feel comfortable in yourself and do what you need to do.