thanks very much for your responses so far, they have said that because she was breech the way she was there may have been a reason and its possible this one could be the same guess we will wait and see.the thing is my ob who i talk to is only a shared care gp who wont actually have anything to do with the birth so might wait until i speak to the ob who will be delivering the next one which ever way it is and get there opinion also and then way it up a bit further down the track.