Katones - Thanks for the info on the spinal/epidural. I'll hear what my ob has to say. I would like to be up and showering asap. I hated that I could not get up and wash myself the first time around ...

Jodie - I know I'm staying 4 days, 3 nights (that's all my medicalaid will pay ) except if something happens and ob needs me there longer. TBH I don't mind the hospital you can stay in bed and be waited on
Thank you!