1) Can I book a date NOW ... I want to be the first c/s of the day
usually you can.
2) If my husband does not want to sit with me during the c/s (looooong story), can I ask BOTH my parents?? I can understand if they tell me there is no room (my dad's in a wheelchair), but I would like to know if that is a reasonable request. And if they can't both come, can I ask someone else?
you should be allowed to have at least one support person with you

3) Can I hold my baby as soos as he is deliverd? One of my gf said that they don't allow it, because it's a sterile operation ?? Is there anything I can say to debunk that?
untrue, i even kissed my bubba straight out of the tummy (i was lifter up to see him being born by the anast.) ! then they handed him him to me (around the sterile- not above) and i had skin to skin, as long as i wanted- i also breastfed in theatre (they had to weigh him AFTER i was finished and ready to let him go for a minute.. )
4) What is better ... epidural or spinal (ETA: What's the difference)
i had a epidural with my 3rd c/s (2 prev. were generals). as far as i know epidural is where the canule stays in so you cna later use it as painrelief and a spinal is a ONE shot
5) I want to start breastfeeding asap

i fed in theatre when they stiched me up!!