Cailin, I think we would be being a little thick to say people have to openly come out and say - 'you’re a failure'...

I have met a few women that have told me they were guilty about a c/section but weren't necessarily unpleased with it if that makes sense? My SIL had a c/section and doesn't mention it to outsider because she feels ashamed and like she failed in some way. Something along the way has obviously planted this seed... why should she feel the need to hide it and why should she feel ashamed?

Cailin - Your choice was with you... it's your body, could you have not stood up for yourself if you so desperately knew you didn't want the c/section? I know Daniel would support me if I chose to say no. And if women are not choosing to have a c/section, what's been happening? Are they just butchered without consent? If so, why don't they take the mater further legally? I think AT THE TIME, they made the decision suitable for them. I would rather listen to the advice of my Ob who has a degree, and then make an informed decision from there and like Kelly always says, you have to stick to your decisions - so if I go into labour with my birth plan I am going to do whatever means necessary to follow it and if doesn't work out, well I’ve tried my best

Obviously I don't have the birth experience - but I have a brain and I disagree with c sections being so controversial.. It's a woman's choice. I don't give a crap about how high the figures are for c sections - woman are choosing this and who are we to judge.

Big thumbs up for Rae and her attitude after her second c section!!!