Charlotte.
One thing I learnt over the time with my c/s was to sit down and do a birth plan, their not just for vag births.

Discuss with your carer what you'd like to have happen, eg the photo opportunity, your worry about having an epi and most of all having to hold your baby to say hello for the first time. Also ask WHY you have to have a c/s rather then a vag birth. Inform yourself on your choices and to get the answers to your questions.

IF the time comes to have your c/s then let the theatre staff know of your plan's also...theatre staff are just fantastic and will help you achieve what you'd like the best they can.

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