Ugh, and this is why I should never participate in threads like this - It makes me feel horrible that I'm proud that I've got my first car on a loan
Don't feel horrible - it's just a different position

What I hear people saying is that either they find it to be worthwhile and/or financially savvy to get a car on a loan or lease/purchase arrangement, or they don't.

This is why I used the comparison of differing opinions about buying books - I like owning books, so I buy them instead of borrowing them from the library ... I can take as long as I want to read them, I can loan them out, I can highlight parts if I like, I can read them in the bath without freaking out if it gets a little wet, and I can easily pluck them off the bookshelf if I want to re-read bits. I like owning them.

Some would say this is a complete waste of money. I don't think so.

I would not spend $100 on a Grand Final ticket - I don't particularly enjoy football, and it's going to be on the telly ... so I'd rather spent $100 on sausages and munchies and drinks, and have some friends over and watch it together on the telly ... which is what we do basically every year! But some people get $100 of value out of going and watching it in person.

Personally, I would find paying interest on a loan for a car to be a waste of money - we've basically always lived near a train station, my school/uni/work has always been near a train station, I've been catching the train since I was 2 years old, and unaccompanied since 10 years old, I have been roller skating and blading since I was 6, and so until we were responsible for other people's welfare, DH and I had no personal need for a car ... and we're not "into" cars, so we've never wanted to spend much money on them ... something reliable with four wheels and room for a carseat were the only real requirements ...

Many of our friends wanted nicer cars, or wanted one earlier, and so they got a loan. They did the maths, crunched the numbers, and decided they were happy to spend $x to obtain item y.

Their prerogative.

Nothing negative, nothing positive.

Nothing wasteful, nothing shallow, nothing stupid.

It's not even about different values ... it's about what experiences and things we value highly.

Just different views, different people.

JMO.