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thread: Do you palm or grip?

  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
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    Do you palm or grip?

    Lately DS17 has started doing this palming thing, I tell him to grip the wheel but no he insists he has full control. Yesterday I thought I'd try and palm around the corner but I couldn't shhhhhhh don't tell DS. Maybe it's a male thing but tell me do you palm or grip?

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    What do you mean?

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    Jul 2006
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    i do a bit of both. It depends on what I am doing at the time...

    Tinks she means when your at the steering wheel turning around the corner you kinda just have your palm sliding around it. That doesnt make sense but I know what I am talking about Lol

  4. #4

    Nov 2007
    Earth
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    I grip most of the time. My driving teacher always said not to cross your arms while turning the corner, but I don't like doing it like that, it feels bumpy and juddery.

  5. #5
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    Apr 2011
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    I think it is kinda a guy thing like it looks cooler or something having said that I do both on occasion! I would NEVER palm while cornering at high speed tho but its very useful when getting out of tight spots in a carpark or something. I often change the positioning of my hands on the wheel coz sometimes my arms get heavy in one position so I drop them down the bottom of the steering wheel. I do A LOT of driving and most of it is open highway in the country so its definitely different to when I'm driving in the city. I guess none of this really helps but I have noticed its a bit of a macho thing for some guys, he may grow out of it lol

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    Dec 2008
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    Ohhh!! I do a bit of both, it depends.

  7. #7
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    Dec 2007
    Geelong
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    That's it Cat, your palm is on the steering wheel without your fingers gripping it.

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    Dec 2007
    Geelong
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    HomeStyleMumma that is DS to a T, chair right back, back rest right down and now palming. All in the name of driving cool .

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    Sep 2007
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    I think you need to let your DS know that you don't mind that he does it on the straight, or at very low speed cornering, but not all the time. Not until he's more experienced. Chances are when he's been driving a few years & had some different experiences of different situations, he won't be so relaxed & easy going all the time. He'll choose to be more in control at times. But you don't want to risk it just yet when he is still inexperienced & not really sure just how unpredictable a car can be at times.

    Saying that... I drive like a bloke One hand on the wheel, arm resting at the window One hand reversing, low speed cornering & out of town, but 2 hands cornering in town & on the edge of my seat in the city I don't do city driving well!

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    I do it quite a bit, but only in certain situations,usually in car parks etc. I'd be trying to get him out of the habit for now though - he's just not skilled enough as a driver yet to be doing it all the time. Palming at 100-110kms to go around bends is entirely different to palming to go around a street corner - its just not something you can do all the time.

  11. #11
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    Sep 2012
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    Do you palm or grip?

    Oooo that's making me think!
    If I am driving straight I normally do that, or hold with a few fingers, but for turning corners I always grip-I feel I have more control that way

  12. #12
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    Sep 2005
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    Yep I do it at times too....but technically it is totally unsafe. Especially when practised by someone who has been driving for five minutes and the only driver training they've had has been basic level.

    It totally isn't cool to lose control in a corner and hit a pedestrian/another car/a tree etc.

  13. #13
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    Jan 2009
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    Well if palming is when you use the base of your hand and fingers out and sort of circle the wheel below your hand - I do that when I am turning the wheel alot - so when doing a uturn, or after backing out. Not for corning though and mostly hold the wheel with my fingers.

    ETA I don't know how anyone can drive with the back of the seat down, it's so uncomfortable and dangerous! I wouldn't allow that if he were driving with me.

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    Dec 2007
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    I've been trying to get him into good habits right from the start but he keeps reverting to driving the "cool" way, so now he's having lessons. He's responding much better to his instructor, he thinks he's already a good driver and I'm the only one who can take him out but there were occasions where he didn't listen to me so this is a much better and safer way.

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    Diane, you have the power here - does he have a car of his own yet? If not, withhold if from him until he starts driving safer. I don't give a **** if driving a certain way looks 'cool' or not, he's got to learn that looking cool could end up making him dead. That's the reality. He's 17. He is not Mark Skaife.

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    Dec 2007
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    He does have his own car but I've told him when his instructor tells me he is driving safely then I'll take him driving again.

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    Jan 2012
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    Good plan, there is not way he would get away with it on a lesson/test.
    and yup i have been known to do it on our property or an empty car park or something, but never turning, i have come round a corner to walkers/dogs.. even an emu to often.

  18. #18
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    Aug 2006
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    DH does the palming thing - it drives me crazy. It's right up there with driving with your knees IMO.

    He smasherooed our last car by losing control around a roundabout (he was going fairly slow but the roads were wet and slick after a dry spell) but I did wonder if he was palming at the time...

    FWIW my dad is a rally car driver and I'm pretty sure none of those guys palm through their turns.

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