Hi. We were just on the same hunt. We went with the Kia Grand Carnival. We liked the imax for its bigger boot space but the 3rd row does not have anchor points and is not a split seat. Our Kia has electric doors which are very handy. We have petrol though and it does chew the fuel a bit but it also a V6 so bit more power.
I have driven some amazing cars. The Kia may not be tge coolest car but it is really nice to drive.