Personally, I think there's something else you need to factor into the equation.

What would it add to your sense of esteem and accomplishment going back to work?

I realise everyone is an individual, but for many, this is what is "priceless" about working outside the home.

Something to ponder

Good luck with your decision.
Very true. I know for me I was getting to that point where it was going to get too hard to get back in to a decent job, at a decent rate. My best jobs and associated referees were getting a bit "old" and knowledge out of date. I was risking about $7 per hour if I did not go back soon.

Also going back to work can save you money depending on your circumstance. I know above all the extra costs have been listed, but in my case I have found that I was not out of pocket. For example I drink tea, most work places provide that. When I work, I buy less tea for home. Childcare provides meals, so there is a home expense that is dropped, same with activities. I go through less paint, playdough etc the less the kids are at home. As for petrol, car maintenance etc well I am out of town, so have to drive in a lot anyway, so I just do what I can on the trips to and from work, or ask DH to get what he can on his way home, so petrol and wear & tear does not go up. The biggest saver I have found is with electricity, we save over $100 a quarter even with me only working part-time. In the past I have had a job where I had lunch provided, plus discounts on purchases, another saving there It is good to see both sides, not just the negative when making such a huge decision.

Best of luck!