Im starting to get annoyed at people thinking that the lumpsum payment recipitants are going to blow it on useless items. It makes it sound like just because you dont earn a large amount that you have no idea how to budjet and lead a normal happy life.

Im also getting annoyed that because people make over $100K a year that many of us think they are rich and live a high and mighty life.

If your not happy with your financial situation do something about it. We are all indivuals who have choices and can choose which town/city/state we live in, what job we have and most of all what kind of lifestyle we lead. If your not happy about it, do something about it. Life is way to short to sit and be stressed out and unhappy about this sort of thing. Our babies are only babies for a short time and you dont want to regret not being there for them later when they have left home. This just doesnt include poeple who work...but how many poeple arent there for their children on an emotional level aswell.