I believe you may have misunderstood Peg...

I mean the extra expenses. The extra things that all kids need & all single Mamas struggle to survive.

I think if it's your kids a non residential parent should strive to get past the Marriage and focus on the kids. What is right for them? They want to dance, draw, play netball... Let's halve it so she/he can have that experience.

Kids cost money. It's not a finite amount and it changes.

The CS system is so difficult to work out for Ms Average & I have to say its very often unfair to the kids.