So continuing on from my last posts about Lily's behaviour...

She has finally stopped phycially abusing DH thankfully. But she is just so defiant and the back chatting and aggression is unbelieveable.

She says no to everything and won't do anything we ask of her. If we tell her not to do something she sticks her tounge out and makes a 'ner-ner' sound.

She thinks everything is funny and everything is a game to her. The more in trouble she is the more funnier she thinks it is. It takes me standing up and pulling her away from something she is doing wrong for her to stop and then she carries on like a pork chop as if i have injured her severely.

She throws things, even while i am driving she throws her shoes at me/DH.

She interups me and DH when we are talking and tells us to stop talking. She yells every time she talks. I swear i have no idea what her voice sounds liek anymore. Most of the time you can't understand what she is saying because she is yelling so much.

She has started swearing! I know this is our fault to begin with because we swear but just the fact she knows what they mean and how to use them is unbelieveable!

And the one that hurts the most is she has starting saying that she hates us and tells us to go away.

I just don't know how to respond to any of this. She's on a waiting list for a psychologist but the wait is long and i can't take much more of this.