But then if it's in the bin it's not on the floor, so you still win! I know it probably seems petty to see that as a victory but i try to keep perspective of what I REALLY want. If it matters so much to ME that i'll throw away a toy that she won't tidy away and then SHE throws it away, i don't care, it least it's tidy!

Have you tried asking her why she won't help out/co-operate/behave? I wonder what she'd give as her reason...?

Bx