Thanks Efjay Fiona ...i will do what you suggested as i have always thought ADHD or at least on the verge of it and everyone else says NO he is just a 'naughty kid' or he is very 'Strong Willed' and im thinking mmm i dont think so .... even his father want budge on the psych/developmental/Adhd avenue .... So it is me that will find out what is up with the behaviour as i cant handle it let alone the person (my child) having to live thru it as it must be frightening having 60 min meltdowns .