Christy, how have things been this afternoon? Is there anything you can do to help alleviate the situation until you have confirmation of a diagnosis at all? Like timetables etc to structure her day (forgive me if you already do stuff like that with her - trying to think of ideas for you). How do they handle problems at Montessori or is she different while she is there? What do they do to help her through her day in relation to the other kids and activities?

Love to you hun, I know this has been going on for a long time and I know your *tank* is almost empty, so I hope that things can be more definate for you soon kwim?