Hugs Clover, I'm really struggling with my DS's who are almost 2 with many issues which their speech therapist has told me shows signs of ASD.

After our last session I told her about the behaviour issues I'm dealing with and the tantrums that can go on forever etc, she told me to go to the GP to get a Mental Health Plan for the boys so that they can see a Psychologist to assist with the behaviour - we have our apt this afternoon to get that started - maybe something you might want to ask your GP about. I'm also thinking about getting one done for me as well as I am at the stage already of needing to debrief and get stuff out of my head so maybe you might want to consider that option as well.

I hope you can get some answers soon as your instincts are telling you something needs to be done, so push to get him reviewed. Better to be told it is normal age appropriate behaviour than to keep letting it get so out of control.