Hmm Ashley, I think that you should just be sneaky and do a test!! I was planning to do my first HPT with DP but I was so afraid of a BFN that would dissappoint DP that I sneakily tested on the arvo of 9dpo. I got a result on this arvo but didnt believe it because it was so faint! If you did O on CD14/15 then you are around 15DPO and will definitely get a result! I think your other half is being a bit unreasonable to make you wait to do a test as it is a woman's NEED to know what the heck is going on!! Well thats just my opinion...