Hello all!

I would love feedback from anyone else who is an avid monthly charter.

I am 28 years old, and have been charting for 3 years, ever since I got off the pill. My cycle is typically 34-35 days long. My temperature reliably peaks anywhere between cd 21-25.

The problem is, my temperature peak and my fluids have NEVER been been in-sync. My fluids are usually the heaviest between cd 13-15. Then, about 8 days later, my temperature peaks. I usually have NO fluids by the time my temperature peaks.

So my question is this: which is more reliable to identify ovulation? Fluids, or your temperature peaking?

Hubby and I had sex on day 14 of this month - smack dab in the midst of fluids. But I figured we were safe because - after all - my temperature wouldn't peak (thus ovulating) until after day 20.

Since day 19 (so for the last 6 days) I have had ongoing bouts with nausea, light-headedness, and increased appetite. It is not going away! I am not a sickly person, and have never had issues with nausea. Even when the nausea is not super intense, it is an "annoying undercurrent," as I have described it to my husband. I am finding that when I eat something, the nausea subsides. So strange! But it is guaranteed to come back within hours, if not sooner.

It is now cd 24, and...guess what? my temperature peaked this morning. So that would suggest I'm in the midst of ovulation now. But because of this very strange - and long-lasting - issue with nausea the last 6 days, I wonder if I could possibly be pregnant and perhaps o'd earlier than my temp would suggest?

Any thoughts out there? Anyone else who experiences fluids and their temp peak being in two different worlds? Could I possibly be pregnant? (This would not be such a bad thing, as we had planned to start trying in the next few months anyway

All feedback is appreciated!